jealous ?

JEALOUSY is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value . Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you .  There is only one alternative - self-value . If you CANNOT LOVE yourself , you will not believe that you are loved.  You will always think it's a mistake or luck . Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within.  Find the seeds of your jealousy , clear the old voices and experiences.  Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security . Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them . And YESS , I'M A BIG FAN OF JEALOUSY ;')